
By phase of life
Some difficulties belong to a stage rather than a condition. These are the passages people most often want support through.

Teenage, Puberty and Adolescence
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Young Adulthood
The stretch where everyone appears to be further along than you, and nobody is describing it accurately.
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Early Career and Work
The first years of working life shape a lot of what a person later believes about their own worth.
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Parenthood
Becoming a parent rearranges a person, and a fair amount of what it brings up is not about the child at all.
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Family and Chosen Family
Family is where the first rules were written. Chosen family is where some people finally get to write their own.
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Transitions
The difficult part of a change is rarely the change itself. It is the stretch afterwards where the old shape has gone and the new one has not arrived.
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Child-free Choices
Deciding not to have children, or being unsure, is treated as a phase to be talked out of rather than a decision to be respected.
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Marriage and Commitment
Marriage in India is rarely only between two people, and the pressure around it is part of the relationship rather than background to it.
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