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Fenweh — a parent and child breathing together with hands on their chests, illustrating co-regulation
Parents & caregivers

Holding everyone, and held by no one.

Caregiving is the work nobody counts. Raising children, managing an ageing parent, often both in the same decade, while being told this is simply what family means. You are allowed to find it hard.

The short answer

This is for parents, and for anyone carrying the care of someone else: an ageing parent, a sibling who needs support, a partner who is unwell. We do not hand out parenting techniques or ask you to be more grateful. We work on the load, the guilt attached to putting any of it down, and what is left of you underneath.

Fenweh — a family holding tangled coloured threads as a therapist helps untangle them, illustrating family systems patterns
Parenting

You are raising them differently, and it is lonelier than expected.

Many Indian parents are trying to do something their own parents did not do: talk about feelings, apologise, allow a no. There is no script for it, and often no support at home.

The unspoken part

"I am parenting the way I wish I had been parented, and it is bringing everything up."

What we work on

The moment you hear your mother's voice come out of your mouth. Repair after you lose your temper. Disagreeing with your co-parent in front of a watching household. And what your own childhood is asking of you now.

Fenweh — a child pointing at feeling cards while an adult kneels beside them, illustrating a child learning to name emotions
Caring for parents

The role reverses, and nobody announces it.

One day you are managing appointments, medication and money for the people who raised you, while grieving them before they have gone.

  • Anticipatory grief, which is real grief and rarely gets called that.
  • Old resentment surfacing at exactly the moment you are expected to be gentle.
  • Siblings who help unevenly, and the conversations nobody starts.
  • Doing it from another country, at three in the morning, on the phone.
Before you begin

Questions caregivers ask first.

No. We are not going to give you a discipline framework. This is therapy for the person doing the caring, which is a different job and usually the one going unattended.
Fortnightly works, and so does a shorter block of focused work. Tell your therapist what is realistic and they will build around it rather than treating it as resistance.
That is one of the most common sentences we hear from caregivers, and it is worth bringing into the first session rather than waiting until it passes.
Yes. Some couples use joint sessions specifically for co-parenting rather than the relationship. Say so at intake and we will match you accordingly.
We work with adults. If your child needs care we will say so honestly and point you toward child and adolescent specialists rather than stretching beyond our scope.
Fenweh — a parent holding a child while another person sits alongside offering support, illustrating care for the carer
When you are ready

Being depended on is not the same as being supported.

You can be the reliable one and still need somewhere to put it down.

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